Some of us are afraid of flying. Some of us are afraid of mice. Some of us are afraid of public speaking. Many of us fear cancer or some other debilitating disease. There’s also the fear of failure or insignificance. On and on it goes, the list of fears and phobias like anxiety and worry, which tend to come from the inside and mostly never happen but they’re still fears, nonetheless. Fear is one of the most basic problems we all have to face and overcome . The goal is to not allow fear to hold you back from experiencing life because the fears we don’t face become our limitations.
Don’t be afraid to dream, live or love. Don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes. There will be times when everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. You may feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t. Sometimes things have to go very wrong before you arrive at the life you were meant to live. Therefore, you might have to go through your worst to get to your best you. Opportunities wait for no one. You must not be afraid to grab one as it passes by. If you don’t take the risk, you will never know how great it could have been.
Don’t be afraid to change. You will lose something but you just might gain something better. See your life as a photo; touch up the edges, adjust your tone, blur out the background, cut out the people who no longer play a role in this season of your life. Thank the people who walked into your life and made it better, and be thankful for those who walked out but played a part in making you wiser. It’s ok to fail. If you are not failing you are not trying. You gain strength, courage and confidence by standing up to fear, looking it straight in the face and saying “I can do this!”
Courage doesn’t mean that you never get afraid. Courage means that you don’t let fear stop you. Don’t focus on what you are up against . Focus on your goals. Every day is a new day and you will never find happiness if you refuse to move on. Learn from the past but focus on the opportunities you have today. How will you ever know if you made the right decision if you never make it? Don’t try to understand everything. Some things happen that you will never understand and are meant only to be accepted. When was the last time you did something for the first time. There is no substitute for experience. To get it you must try it. It doesn’t matter what others are doing. It only matters what you are doing.
Find balance in your life. Work hard but don’t let work over take you. Know that you are worthy to having your dreams. Don’t be afraid to dream. You may not know what will happen, when it will happen or how but it will never come to pass if you don’t first believe. Don’t compare yourself to others. You are unique and here for a purpose. You are irreplaceable. Embrace change. Embrace life. Happiness is achieved when you stopped waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are now in. Don’t be afraid to fail. Instead be afraid of not trying. There is even some good in failure because the feedback you get will help you to succeed the next time. Your new life is going to cost you your old one! It doesn’t matter how many times you don’t succeed. Listen to that small voice inside of you that says ‘you are not done yet; get back up and try again,’