The choices we make determine our destiny and that is why we must do all we can to ensure that our choices are made with wisdom and understanding. Your family and friends can offer you advice when you are trying to make a decision, but it is important that you realize that, ultimately, you are responsible for every decision you make. Some of your decisions will be good while others will not be but do not feel condemned by your mistakes just learn from them and move on.
Christians are to make their decisions in the fear of God. The spirit of God that dwells in every believer will shed light on your path and guide you in the way God wants you to go. Wisdom comes only from God and if we seek Him, He will cause us to have understanding. The Bible tells us that in all we acquire in this life, the primary thing for us to get is wisdom. Having a fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and wisdom will show us what to do or what not to do, and if we listen to God we will have the outcome we desire.
Don’t take the choices that you make lightly. Bad choices will not only affect your present situation, but it could also affect future generations. Meditate on God’s Word. Surround yourself with mature believers who have already travelled the road you are now on. God put them in your life for a reason. Take heed and remember that every decision you make matters. Make the right choice – your life depends on it!